[Dixielandjazz] What happened on November 26, 1978?

[JimDBB at aol.com]

Thought y'all might find this interesting (and a little disturbing, and
touching).
Wayne Wright sent it to me; he did not write this.

-Jon Kellso

Thought you might find this article interesting. Although I met him when I
was a kid in Detroit, I got to know and  hang with Frank Rosolino some when
he came to NYC for a gig.  --Wayne

Original Message is from Freudfrend at aol.com. I do not however, know who
this person is. 

What happened in November 26, 1978?

THERE ARE THOSE, the fine saxophonist Don Menza among them, who long
afterwards found it all but impossible to talk about what happened in those
early hours of November 26, 1978. By one of those bits of mental
prestidigitation with which we protects our sanity, we all succeeded in not
even thinking about it. We pushed the event into some closet in a back room
of the mind, and then we all shut the door. I cannot to this day explain,
and neither can the homicide detectives, why it happened. I'll tell you, as
I told them, what I know. Frank Rosolino was among the best-loved men in
jazz. One of the finest trombone players in the history of the instrument,
he had a superb tone, astonishing facility, a deep Italianate lyricism, and
rich invention. Frank was, very simply, a sensational player. In addition
he had a wonderful spirit that always communicated itself to his associates 
on
the bandstand or the record date. He was one of the funniest of men, with a
wit that literally would not quit. He bubbled. Quincy Jones remembered
touring Japan with a group that included Frank and drummer Grady Tate.
"With those two," Quincy said, "you can imagine what it was like. The band 
was
always in an uproar."

Frank was one of a number--Donald Byrd was another--of fine jazz musicians
to come out of Cass Tech in Detroit, a superior high school which drew its
students from all over the city. Only the exceptional could even get into
it. Frank always had the air of a mischievous kid looking for some hell to
raise or trouble to get into, and this trait had emerged by the time he
went to Cass Tech. Giggling in that way of his, he would in later years 
recall
swiping cars for joyrides. It was always a serious mistake to get into a
poker game with Frank. He was one of those men who, but for a soaring and
compelling musical talent, might well have ended up in jail. Like everyone
who knew him, I remember vividly the last times I saw Frank. We were at
Dick Gibson's party in Colorado, one of those events that sprung up in recent
years in which aging rich jazz fans invite brilliant musicians to come and
play for them. At one point he played with Carl Fontana and Bill Watrous,
and the three-trombone music was gorgeous. In another unforgettable set,
Clark Terry and Frank did several scat-singing duets. They kept making each
other laugh, and afterwards I urged them to record together, not playing so
much as scatting. Frank was one of the few people who could scat on the
same bandstand with Clark Terry. The main events of the long weekend were 
held
in the Broadmoor Hotel in Colorado Springs, noted for exciting scenery, dull
food, and sullen service. 

After the last performance at the Broadmoor, we all traveled by bus back to 
Dick Gibson's house in Denver, Frank and the girl he was living with, Diane,
were in the seat behind my wife and me. We did not know it at the time, 
but Frank's third wife, the mother of his two
sons, had gone into their garage, shut the door, turned on the car's
engine, and sat there in the fumes until she died. I do not know her motive. 
Frank,
in the seat behind us, was talking about following her, killing himself and
taking the two boys with him, since he could not bear the thought of
leaving them behind in this world. Were we hearing him correctly? Diane said,
"Don't talk that way, Frank. Let's pray together." 

That evening in Denver there was a final informal party at Gibson's house. 
Frank seemed cheerful, making mywife and I doubt the accuracy of our hearing 
in the noise of the bus. She and I leave early to get back to Los Angeles. So 
did Frank, who had a gig the next morning. We took a cab to the airport 
together. Frank was as funny as always. The conversation overheard on the bus 
seemed like the morning
memory of a nightmare. We were told at the airport that the flight would be
boarding late. My wife and Frank and I wandered around with little to do.
Frank shattered the impersonal tedium that hangs in the atmosphere of all
airports: he had us laughing so hard that a salesgirl in the bookshop,
watching us with suspicion, pointed us out to a security guard, who kept an
eye on us. 

Part of it was Frank's delivery. It has been said that a comic says funny
things and a comedian says things funny. Frank was both. He had a lazy
low-key way of talking, the epitome of cool, that was either the archetype
or the mockery of the classic bebop musician. You never knew who Frank was
putting on, the world or himself. Or both. And he had a loose-jointed
rag-doll ah-the-hell-with-it way of walking. Frank could even more
humorously. He seemed to relish the idea of the bebopper, even as he made
fun of it. Having exhausted the airport's opportunities for amusement, we
went into its coffee shop. It had a U-shaped counter and a terrazzo floor
that someone had just mopped with a hideous disinfectant. The air was full
of flies, drifting back and forth in lazy curves. We slid onto stools. A
waitress about thirty years old approached us. Frank said in that
nruffled-by-anything drawl of his, "I'll have a bowl of those flies,
please." With unexpected sang-froid, the waitress tossed the ball right
back
at him. "We only serve them on Thursdays," she said. "Then I'll come back
Thursday," Frank said, and we all laughed, including the waitress. Finally,
late, we were told that we could board the plane, a TWA flight on stopover
between Chicago and Los Angeles. On the plane, returning from an engagement
was, to our delighted surprise, Sarah Vaughan. Red Callender, the bassist,
and his wife were also with us. We all sat together and talked, waiting for
the take-off. The pilot's disembodied voice told us that there was fog in
Los Angeles and the flight would be further delayed. Frank got funnier,
Sass got helpless with laughter. Frank asked a pretty stewardess if we could
have drinks. She said it was against regulations for her to serve them before
takeoff. But Frank soon had her laughing too, and she left to get us the
drinks. Frank said, "I have to be careful. I wouldn't want her to lose her
gig over it, 'cause then I might have to marry her." At last the plane took
off. Sass wanted to sleep but Frank kept up his jokes, and she said,
"Frank, stop it!" Finally, shaking her head, she moved further back in the 
plane to
escape him. At last weariness overcame him, and Frank too fell asleep,
sprawled across two or three seats of the nearly empty aircraft. I awoke in
daylight to the sound of the pilot's voice telling us to fasten seat belts
for the descent into Los Angeles. I peered around the back of the seat
ahead of me and saw that Frank was still asleep. By this time in his life, 
his
thick dark curly hair had become almost white and he had a full iron-gray
mustache. And yet, asleep, he looked like that boy at Cass Tech, trying to
find a little action. I shook his shoulder and said, "Frank, Wake up, we're
home." 

I turned on the television that morning to watch the news, then drifted
back into that soft state between sleeping and waking. Then there was a voice
saying, "The internationally celebrated jazz trombonist Frank Rosolino took
his own life last night." Police in the Van Nuys division say that Frank
Rosolino shot his two small sons and then turned the gun on himself. One of
the children is dead; the other is in critical condition, undergoing
surgery. Frank Rosolino, who became nationally known with the bands of Gene
Krupa and Stan Kenton, was... ""No!" I shouted, waking my wife. She asked
what had happened. I told her. She burst into tears. We remembered his
words on the bus. I got up and, after staring at the floor for a while,
telephoned the Van Nuys police and asked first for homicide, then for whoever 
was
handling the Frank Rosolino "case." After a while a man took up the
telephone and gave me his name. I gave him mine and asked if he could tell
me any more than I had heard on the news. "Did you know him, sir?" he
asked. "Yes, I did." "Then perhaps, you can help us." he said. "We're just
puzzled." "So am I," I said. "But not totally surprised." I told him about
the bus trip to Colorado. "Is it possible that drugs were involved?" the
detective asked carefully. "I don't know," I said. "Although nowadays, you
always wonder that." I told him what kind of person Frank was, how loved he
was. But even as I said it I questioned how well any of us had really known
him. I had realized there was a dark side of Frank but had never dreamed
that it was this dark. And, as Roger Kellaway said later. When somebody
cracks four jokes a minute, we all should have known there was something
wrong." The conversation with the detective at last ended, as unsatisfying
to him as it was to me. In the course of that day and the next I learned a
little more. Diane (the girl Frank was living with) had wanted to go to
Donte's to hear Bill Watrous. Donte's is a nightclub in North Hollywood, a
hangout for musicians and one of the few places in Los Angeles where the
best studio players can go to play jazz and remind themselves why they took
up instruments in the first place. Frank said he wanted to stay home with
his two boys: Jason, who was then seven, and Justin, nine. I met those boys
once, at a party at the home of Sergio Mendes. They were full of laughter
and energy and mischief, like Frank. They were wonderfully handsome and
happy little fellows, scampering like puppies amid the hors d'oeuvres and
among the legs of people, having a high old time. Diane went to Donte's
with a visiting girlfriend. They came home toward four o'clock in the morning
and were sitting in the car in the driveway when they saw a flash of light in
the boy's bedroom. Thinking the boys were awake, they got out and went into
the house. As they entered they heard the last shot, the one Frank put into
his brain. He was still alive. I do not know and do not want to know the
further details. In any case, he soon died. Frank had gone to the bedroom
where Jason and Justin were sleeping and shot each of them in the head.
Justin was dead. Jason was not. That night and long into the next day he
underwent surgery--fourteen hours of it. The autopsy deepened the mystery.
The coroner's report said that there were no significant amounts of alcohol
or drugs in Frank's system.

A service was organized or Frank's friends. His two brothers, Russell and
Gasper Rosolino, had flown out from Detroit to take Frank and Justin back
with them for burial. I do not remember the name of the funeral home, but I
can see its polite and muted decor. A lot of us, including Don Menza,
Shelly Manne, and Conte and Pete Candoli, were standing around in little 
groups in
the lobby, watching our friends arrive. It seemed everyone in town was
there. I don't think any man ever had fewer enemies and more friends than
Frank Rosolino. J.J. Johnson and Herb Ellis came in together; I can still
see their bleak faces. Med Flory said, "Well, Frank sure took care of
Christmas for all of us." Finally, because it seemed the thing to do, I
wandered into the chapel. The two coffins were in the expected place at the
front of it. Roger Kellaway and I walked apprehensively toward them. The
cosmeticians had done well. Beautiful little Justin truly did look as if
were merely sleeping on the velvet cushion. Frank too looked asleep, as I
had seen him on the plane over Los Angeles.

Roger Kellaway said something softly as he looked at Justin. Later he told
me it was a prayer. Then he looked down at Frank and said, "You asshole,"
expressing the strange compound of love and grief and anger we were all
feeling toward Frank. I couldn't face sitting through a service. What was
there to say? Roger and I headed for a nearby tavern and had a couple so
Scotches. For, as Roger put it, "I've had friends who killed themselves
before, but I've never had one who killed his kid." He stared into his
drink. The bar was lit softly. The upholstery was red. He said, "You can
make that decision for yourself, but you have no right to make it for
anyone else." After a time we went back to the chapel. The service, which had 
been
short, was over, and our friends were standing quietly in the lobby. Later
there as a wake at Don Menza's house in North Hollywood. Menza and I talked
for a while about Verdi. And about Frank. Frank had fought his share of the
jazz wars. He had been through financial hard times and lived to see
himself and other musicians of brilliance and in some cases genius struggling 
to
pay their telephone bills, while grungy illiterate singers rode around in
limousines, with expensive whores, and demolished hotel rooms and recording
studios and told their underlings to put it on the bill. He had even lived
to see their likes earnestly analyzed as artists in the New York Times and
the Los Angeles Times and Rolling Stone and Newsweek. But things had been
improving for him, Menza told me, including Frank's financial situation.
Frank had wanted to play more jazz, and he was doing it. Don said that he
and Frank had been scheduled to make an album, and there was more work of
that kind on Frank's calendar. He and Frank had been very close. Med Flory
was right. Christmas was dreary that year.

At first we heard that Jason would be both deaf and blind. For a long time
he was in coma. We heard that he would come out of it and scream and then
lapse back into unconsciousness. You found yourself thinking some strange
thoughts. What would happen to him if he should indeed be both blind and
deaf? What communication would he have with the world? Would he be a
vegetable? Or, worse, would he be a sentient conscious being trapped in a
black silence with memories of sight and sounds and never knowing why and
how they had suddenly ceased? Had he been the second one shot? Had he seen
his brother killed?

After a while we heard that Jason could hear. He was living by now with
relatives of his mother. Gradually I stopped thinking about him. And about
Frank. Every once in a while, though, something would happen to remind me.
Roger Kellaway and I were on our way to an appointment in Tarzana, an area
of Los Angeles at the west end of the San Fernando Valley. We saw a little
boy, about three, crying in the street. We stopped the car. The boy was
lost. Roger and I decided that he would go on to our appointment while I
tried to learn where the boy belonged. I asked passing people if they knew
the child. Gradually a crowd gathered. A tall handsome man in his late
fifties introduced himself. He was a cop, a lieutenant. He lived in a
nearby building. We went up to his apartment, where he gave the boy something 
to
eat. The child stopped crying. The man picked up the phone, dialed, and
identified himself. He was head of the Van Nuys homicide division. While we
waited for a police car--which in due course did find the boy's home--I
asked the lieutenant if he had handled the "Rosolino case." He said that
two of his men had. 

I found myself going over it all again. So did the lieutenant. He told me
that in his line of work one inevitably becomes inured, but the two
detectives who had gone to Frank Rosolino's house that night had come back
to the office in tears. "Yeah," I said. "They were beautiful little boys."
After that I banished Frank from my thoughts. I never listened to his
records. But Jason Rosolino didn't cease to be. He was adopted by a cousin
of his mother, Claudia Eien, and her husband, Gary. Caring for him
exhausted the family's resources, emotional, physical, and financial. Jason 
was sent
to Braille school, but he was suffering from psychological problems.
Surprised? "But he's beautiful," Don Menza's wife, Rose, said. "He's smart
as a whip. He has all Frank's fire and energy." He was also, she said, very
musical. He had tried trumpet and trombone and piano, but he had no
patience. 

Five year passed. The strain on Claudia and Gary of caring for him had
proved enormous. Don and Rose Menza and other musicians and their wives
planned a concert to help Jason and some other people in need. It ran from
5:00 p.m. to midnight on the evening of October 30, 1983, at the Hollywood
Palladium, a grand old ballroom from the 1930s filled with the ghosts of
vanished bands. It seemed everyone was there: the big bands of Bill Berry
and Don Menza, Supersax, Steve Allen, Jack Lemmon, Shelly Manne, Ernie
Andrews, the Tonight Show band... And Jason. He was there with his adoptive
parents and a young psychologist who had been working with him. At first I
stayed away from them. A lot of people did. Finally my wife said, "We can't
all ignore him." I thought, what is it? Am I afraid of a twelve-year-old
boy? Or am I afraid of seeming to manifest a morbid curiosity? Or are you,
I
said to myself, afraid that you can't handle what he has been through? "Go
and talk to him," my wife said. "You go and talk to him!" I answered. But
in the end I did it. Very timidly, I introduced myself to the Eien family, 
and
soon found myself caught up in conversation. My wife then joined us. "I
used to know you a long time ago, Jason," I said. "Before I was seven?" 
"Yes," I
said. "Before you were seven." He was a handsome boy, tall, dark, and
strongly muscled. There was a scar on his temple but it was not all that
conspicuous. The eyes were in deep shadows, unseeing. The bullet destroyed
the optic nerve but it did not touch the centers of intelligence. The
psychologist told me Jason had a genius I.Q. And you could see, as you
watched him listen to the music, that he had elephant ears. An uncanny
thing happened then--two uncanny things. He touched my wife's hair. Not her 
face,
just her hair. He said, "I know what you look like." "And what do I look
like?" He gave a wolf whistle, then said, "You have blonde hair and a full
mouth." All of it accurate. I was not too severely unnerved by that. Dave
MacKay, the pianist, is also blind. I have known Dave, at a social affair,
to describe the color of a sweater worn by someone just entering the room.
And Dave has a remarkable ability to fathom character merely from the sound
of a voice. "How do you know that?" I asked Jason. "From her voice," Jason
said. But the next one was even stranger. My wife mentioned a friend in
Santa Barbara who grew flowers. Jason said he knew what the man looked
like. He said the man was tall and fair-headed. This was accurate. But how 
many
tall sandy-haired Japanese have you met? Don Menza's band was performing.
"Who's playing the trumpet solo?" Jason asked me. "Chuck Findley," I said,
and then thought, why misinform him? "Actually, it is not a trumpet, it is
a flugelhorn." "What's the difference?" "It's a somewhat bigger instrument,
it plays in a slightly lower register, and it has a darker sound." "What do
you mean by darker?" That stopped me. One of those moments when you realize
that music cannot be described. And in the attempt we usually resort to 
visual
analogies, which did not seem appropriate in the present instance. "It's
fatter, it's thicker somehow," I said. Then Bill Berry played a solo.
"That's a trumpet in a Harmon mute," I told Jason, and explained the use of
mutes. "It sounds a little like a saxophone," Jason said. And not many
orchestrators have noticed that resemblance. Shelly Manne was playing with
Don Menza's band. Two weeks earlier Shelly had been hurt in an encounter
with a horse on his ranch and one leg was immobilized by a cast. This meant
he was working without a high hat. I explained this to Jason. "What's a
high hat?" he said. Give me your hands," I said, and put them palm to palm
horizontally. I slapped them together on the second and fourth beats of the
music. "Two cymbals facing each other, like that. You work them with a foot
pedal." "Oh, yes, I know," Jason said. "I used to play drums." We listened
to the music for a time. "I think a lot of people are trying to help you,
Jason," I said "A lot of people in this room love you." "Why?" "Just
because. Take my word for it," I said. "Do you know who really loves me?"
"Who?" "God loves me," he said. 





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