[Dixielandjazz] Care?
Bill Gunter
jazzboard@hotmail.com
Wed, 28 Aug 2002 16:05:58 +0000
Dear Romantics,
Henry Stinson wrote:
>...One older woman wept, because her husband had recently died, and she
>said
>he sang ["You Are My Sunshine"] to her every day of their long marriage.
I responded:
>Bill "Sorry, couldn't help myself" Gunter respectfully submitted:
>Now I really don't mean to be disrespectful here, but how would you feel if
>your spouse sang "You Are My Sunshine" EVERY DAY of your long marriage?
Nancy Giffin observes:
>Do husbands really do that kind of romantic thing for their wives?
>Bill, try to "think like a woman" here. If my husband did sang our favorite
>song for me everyday, while looking into my eyes with love and
>appreciation,
>here's how I'd feel:
>
>The first instance of hearing the first note, I'd automatically and
>hypnotically slip into that blissful state I first fell into during the
>first time my sweetie ever sang it to me in what was no doubt an utterly
>romantic moment. A Pavlovian response. High praise from me to all couples
>who have established their own unique little trigger for that most
>desirable
>response: bliss. May her dear husband rest in peace. I grieve for her.
. . . and my final observation:
I know, I know . . . I was just being insensitive. It is a poignant story
and I can relate to it. Like if my wife and I don't get our morning hug each
day something is missing.
I'll try to behave myself!
Respectfully submitted,
Bill "I Still Think It's Funny" Gunter
jazzboard@hotmail.com
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